Unlock Your Heart

​I would like to attract a few good men—men who are ready to jump into their personal growth—for their own reasons—how to become more authentic in who they are BEING and what they DOING ABOUT IT.

I would encourage reading and doing the work in Unlock Your Heart women would love to know a man who has his entire Package together—and I don’t mean his private parts-although if he is all together those do enter in (no pun intended)
relationships that thrive are based on being real—telling the truth—sharing the scary stuff—listening deeply and being fully present for everything—the sweet stuff, the gnarly stuff—all of it—all together—in one package—one Soul-Lit collection--

If you are a man reading this right now and it sparks something in you—please head right on over to www.unlockyourheart.com and buy Unlock Your Heart—and after you dig in and do the work, I would love to hear how it is going for you. I would be delighted to know what is working better, how you are listening differently in relationships—both work related and personal, and how you see yourself now that you are connected to what you value deeply.

And—I applaud you for being MAN Enough to admit and know that you could use some help being better at who you are. We all can use help!

So often in one’s daily experience things come up and present themselves based upon who is in one’s life. We want to step in and fix any problem or hurt that is being felt by someone we love and care about. However, in the divine realm, it is not our place to fix another. We can certainly be present with a loving, compassionate awareness, but we are not meant to heal the problem for another. This is a big awakening for most women. WE want to step in and make it all better just by being there and flowing our love.

As time passes those of us who have spent time studying the spiritual, begin to realize that fixing is not in the equation.  Each one has to be with her personal life plan or experience in the her own way, at her own pace. Those of us who are mothers bring another being into the world and we hold on with a force that is beyond description. We love and we guide and we hope for the very best for our children. There comes a time as they grow that we  understand from the depth of our core that we must let go and let be. It is a very difficult revelation for us—because we so want happiness to be there for our children. WE do not want them to suffer any losses, disease or accidents and yet—all of those experiences are somewhere in their personal development.

And so at some point we begin to see that we must step back, breathe within ourselves and release our attachment to thinking that we know what is best.

That huge piece—embrace what is and let it be—let it play out—meet it face to face and love it for what it is—Such a huge requirement on the spiritual path—and so important!! It is vital that we finally surrender and trust and know that all will be as it is meant to be—in it’s own time—with or without our manipulation.

What a freeing knowingness this is—to know that we are released from any attachment to an outcome that we really have no control over!! We can be present watching and loving—and that is all we have to do—or be—JUST LOVE —FULLY PRESENT—ALWAYS!